change specify bottleneck route (hop) so internet latency will reduced (custom routing)

        So when I analyze routing to a destination with <code>traceroute</code>, I have this output:

[email protected]:~# traceroute 95.214.53.226 -nq 1
traceroute to 95.214.53.226 (95.214.53.226), 30 hops max, 60 byte packets
 1  *
 2  172.22.100.4  1.348 ms
 3  172.22.100.1  1.522 ms
 4  172.16.202.1  1.709 ms
 5  172.16.202.41  3.290 ms
 6  172.16.199.1  3.359 ms
 7  172.20.252.14  15.861 ms
 8  87.245.230.30  16.383 ms
 9  87.245.232.234  167.755 ms
10  *
11  *
12  *
13  154.54.56.189  168.284 ms
14  154.54.58.226  174.436 ms
15  130.117.51.61  191.255 ms
16  154.54.37.42  198.364 ms
17  149.6.71.139  212.325 ms
18  185.16.37.11  190.273 ms
19  95.214.53.226  190.993 ms !X

Where * indicate the route didn't respond, and !X idk what is that! The problem is, as you see, hop 8 and hop 9 have many delay between them (167.755 - 16.384) or 151.372 ms delay! How do I prevent my server is not routing to 87.245.232.234. Instead it will route to another router that will have low latency, as we know internet topology is mesh topology (CMIIW) so I think it's possible. So if it's possible to solve this, I will not have latency problem anymore (perhaps).